On a sombre note...(SEPT)

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I know this isn't directly connected to me, but I felt that some who know my family better would want to know. Please bear with me here, I got this information about 3rd hand through my brother to my parents, so I don't have many of the details.

My brother's girlfriend's younger sister was overdue to have a baby for the past few weeks now. She finally went into labour last night (I think) but there were MAJOR complications. Her bloodtype apparently caused the baby to be at great risk when their blood mixed during birth (? again, I don't know what type, what the problems were exactly, just that things did not go at all as planned). She had an emergency C-section because the baby's heart stopped. They managed to revive him/her for a few hours, but there was massive braindamage and ultimately the baby died.

The would-be-mother is a year younger than I am and is currently engaged to the father who is in his mid-to-late 20's. I think they were set to be married this fall, but again, I'm not sure. I've never met either of them.

So please, send your thoughts to my brother Ian and his girlfriend Heidi in this most difficult of times for them, as well as to the were-to-be parents, Nicole and her fiance. Thanks so much, I know all your thoughts will help them through this.

Marg

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Wow. I can't imagine having to go through something like that.

Actually, that's not true. I *can* imagine it, and it terrifies the hell out of me. I truly hope they get through this ok.

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Yeah, neither can I, but I'm guessing it's the absolute worst feeling in the world. Thanks for your thoughts.

Marg

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*sends his thoughts*

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hey.. wow. I've always figured that nothing you can say will make this feel better -- for a long long time. So I'll just chime in with sending my best wishes and thoughts to them.

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*adds them his his prayers*

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Thanks so much guys.

My brother said last night that during the c-section, the baby was deemed to have been ill or in severe distress during the last days. They are apparently performing an autopsy to find out exactly what happened. The funeral will be early this week. Thanks again.

Marg

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Blaze wrote:
*adds them his his prayers*

Same here.

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God Bless them.

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Peace return to them soon

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comandergood wrote:
God Bless them.

My tyoughts exactly,

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Thanks so much, everyone. My brother just flew in today. He's doing fine, but Heidi's still a wreck. They really appreciate all your thoughts and prayers.

Marg

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Thanks again

I do want to re-iterate my thanks for all your kind thoughts/prayers. Everyone seems to be doing better and they send their thanks too. No word on any more details, I'm just so relieved they're all feeling better. :wink:

Marg

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warm thoughts..

sent.

i am so happy that there were no complications when my baby was born... and she just turned one year old a couple weeks ago!


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